I’ve always loved the imagery of Proverbs 27:17. Iron sharpening iron . . . Both are equal in strength, yet instead of battling to prove which is greatest by attempting to subdue the other, they come together in a gentle manner, drawing close with a common purpose of edification. When swords clash in battle, they can become nicked, dull, or even broken. But when they are drawn together in humility and mutual respect, they sharpen each other, making both better.
I experienced this sharpening firsthand last weekend as a group of writing friends gathered for our annual retreat. Julie Klassen already posted about our wonderful trip to the Library of Congress. There were many highlights, that being near the top of the list. We also had the chance to spend time running ideas by an editor from Bethany House, having brunch in the historical Jefferson hotel, and one of the best “sharpening” experiences of the weekend–brainstorming plot ideas for upcoming novels.
Arriving at airport on Thursday. Katie Ganshert, me, and Dani Petrey.
Diner with Dave and Sarah Long on Friday after we ran Dave ragged all day with individual author meetings.
First time riding the metro on Saturday. Julie, Jody, and I are now old pros.
A little sight seeing on Saturday. The capital was so impressive.
Sunday Brunch at the Jefferson Hotel. I had the strawberry French toast. So yummy!
In the Reading Room at the Jefferson Hotel with Becky, Jody, and Katie G. We actually found some novels on the shelves! Although Katie was too busy yakking on the phone to read.
With all the fun going on, it’s hard to believe that any writing got done, but it did. Best of all was the time spend together, gently sharpening one another. Whether we were brainstorming, speed scrabble playing, discussing industry trends, watching movies, or sight-seeing, whatever we did, there was a constant atmosphere of encouragement, mutual respect, learning from one another, and sharing of ideas. I definitely left sharper than when I arrived.
- How do you and your friends “sharpen” each other?
- Any ideas for cozy retreat sites we might like to try in future years?
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If you ever come to the Charlotte, NC area, I would definitely love “to hang out” with some of the authors I totally enjoy reading and reviewing for!
Sounds like so much fun! In my job, I am a “walking idea” (director of children’s ministry), so I completely understand how important brainstorming can be.
Yes, Rebecca. Children’s ministry is a constant stretch for creativity and fresh ideas. Great example!
Sounds like a wonderful trip! I live in Virginia Beach. We have wonderful Colonial Williamsburg nearby in case you ever come our way – a beautiful place for a retreat.
Oooh – You are tempting my history-loving soul, Betty. 🙂 That sounds like a beautiful place to visit.
I had such a wonderful time on our trip to DC! I came home relaxed and inspired. 🙂
Me too, Becky. Then a work avalanche buried me that I am just now climbing out from under. I didn’t write at all last week. Eeek! But I’m getting back on track. Made me miss quiet of the DC house for sure!
Hi Karen!
Your post brought back wonderful memories of the time together! It was definitely iron sharpening iron! I loved the encouragement and it was so much fun to brainstorm with story ideas with everyone! After my extra week away, I’m not sure that I’ll ever climb out of the work-hole that piled up, especially with twin graduation just down the road in a few weeks. But it was well worth it!! Hugs!
I’m so glad you got to spend some extra time with family in DC, Jody. It was a joy to meet your husband and some of your kids. I’m already looking forward to next year!
Loved this post, Karen. Was so much fun getting peek at the fun you and your friends had in Washington D.C. Thanks for sharing!
My pleasure, Beth. It was a wonderful blend of fun and work, as well as a great change of pace from the routine at home.
Looks like you had a great time! I don’t know how you girls do it! With you busy lives how do you have time for everything? Blessings., I love reading!
Thanks, Paula. I truly believe that God provides the time we need no matter how crazy things get. Without him, I’d never manage to accomplish anything.