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The Beauty of Waiting in the Writing Life

February 19, 2020 By D'Ann Mateer

I first met Rachelle Rea (now) Cobb 10ish years ago at a writing conference where I was giving free critiques. This darling 18 year old sat across from me waiting to hear my reaction to her story. Of course it wasn’t publish-worthy at that point, but there was so much potential and desire in this sweet girl. I encouraged her to keep at it. We kept in touch via social media. She grew up and had novels published. She even copy edited my indie novellas. But never did I imagine I’d get to be more intimately connected with her publishing journey. I was honored to be hired by her publisher to be the editor of her latest release, Follow the Dawn. So meet my friend Rachelle. I hope you enjoy her and her books as much as I do!

I can’t seem to sign a book contract without wrapping a big life event around it! I released my first novel the summer I fell in love with my husband, the second around the same time he proposed, and the third dangerously close to our wedding day. And now my fourth full-length novel is releasing two short months before our baby girl is due to arrive!


Isn’t that just like life, though? So often the writing life can seem like a journey punctuated by “hurry up and wait” as we writers wait on inspiration … and then scurry to write, wait on feedback … and then hurry to implement, wait on our query letter to receive a positive response, wait as our book goes to committee, and then wait for the happy days of contracts and confetti!
 
But the Beauty of Waiting Isn’t in the Waiting


In college, when I was tired of writing papers (and as an English minor, I wrote a lot of papers!), I turned to writing a story … then another … then yet another. The stories I wrote then later became my first published books.
 
The Steadfast Love series was borne out of a love of history and a passion for true love. I still love history and true love (especially sharing sappy posts about my man on Instagram!). But I also now work as a freelance editor, coaching other writers like me on the path to publication.

In my latest novel, Follow the Dawn, the heroine Anna has a choice to make: she can either wait for life to happen to her, or she can choose to pursue the life she wants, the sister she hasn’t spoken to in years, and the dreams she has for her own future.

I geek out teaching writers how to structure their writing so that they can make more room for the art and heart of whatever story they’re telling. And sometimes I get to encourage fellow writers as they wait for their writing dreams to come true.
 
Because the truth is, the beauty of waiting isn’t in the culmination of whatever we’re waiting for … it’s in what we do in the meantime as we wait.
 
So How Are You Spending Your Wait?

Perhaps you find yourself at a similar place, waiting for inspiration or feedback or a positive response or the book contract you’ve always dreamed of (or the next one!). May I encourage you today to not sit on your hands as you wait? It can be all too tempting, I know, to want to wait for good news and not spend the waiting time meaningfully because, well, what if something goes wrong? What if all your dreams are dashed and that waiting time is wasted?
 
Even so, I encourage you to keep writing as you wait. And maybe even wrap some big life events into your waiting time so you don’t have to pile them all together at once as I did! 🙂 
 

So what camp do you belong to–are you in a period of waiting or …not? Share in a comment below. 

About Rachelle
Rachelle Rea Cobb is a freelance editor, an author of six books, and a voracious reader. She married a man with the same name as her first fictional hero, and they are now living their happily ever after in a fixer-upper by the sea, where they are awaiting the arrival of their first daughter this spring. She’s a fan of chai and lemonade (though definitely not together).

You can find her on Instagram, Facebook, and on her blog.

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Inspired by novelist Eugenia Price, D’Ann’s dream of writing historical fiction with an element of faith began in middle school, though her serious drive toward publication took a bit longer. D’Ann is the author of four historical novels and one novella, as well as a contemporary short stories in a compilation volume. D’Ann and her husband of 30 years can be found in Austin, TX when they aren’t touring historic sites or visiting their grown children.

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  1. Karen Witemeyer says

    February 19, 2020 at 7:06 am

    So fun to meet you, Rachelle. I love that your husband has the same first name as your first fictional hero. What I’m dying to know, is which came first? 🙂 Was your hero named after the man you hoped to one day marry? Or did the fictional man come first and God used the name similarity as a sign that your hubby was THE ONE? Can you tell that I’m a die-hard romantic? Pure happenstance is not an option here. Ha! 🙂

    • Anne Mateer says

      February 19, 2020 at 1:46 pm

      I’d love to know that, too!

      • Rachelle Rea Cobb says

        February 21, 2020 at 11:46 am

        Hi Karen!I wrote the fictional man first, and God used the name similarity as a sign that my hubby was THE ONE? It was awesome!

  2. Becky Wade says

    February 19, 2020 at 7:45 am

    Thanks for joining us here today, Rachelle! I’m so excited about the impending birth of your daughter. Congratulations!!

    • Anne Mateer says

      February 19, 2020 at 1:47 pm

      Isn’t she the cutest little pregnant lady?

      • Rachelle Rea Cobb says

        February 21, 2020 at 11:46 am

        Ya’ll are so sweet!

  3. Rebecca A Reed says

    February 19, 2020 at 8:04 pm

    What a great post. Thanks for sharing and congratulations on your growing family.

    • Rachelle Rea Cobb says

      February 21, 2020 at 11:50 am

      Thanks so much, Rebecca!

  4. Deborah Raney says

    February 20, 2020 at 4:26 am

    Welcome, Rachelle! Great post. I needed to hear that bit about not wasting waiting time! Thank you!

    • Rachelle Rea Cobb says

      February 21, 2020 at 11:49 am

      Thank you, Deborah!

  5. Esther O'Neill says

    February 21, 2020 at 1:53 am

    Reading about an as yet unknown person’s ‘happy ever after ‘, and writing success could trigger jealousy, I suppose.
    Nothing of the kind, I’m just glad for your unknown young friend. My own big life event has been more like a car crash in very slow motion, the antithesis of creativity. Reconstruction has begun, and it’s a wonderful born again feeling. Starting a blog has been a step forward.

    • Rachelle Rea Cobb says

      February 21, 2020 at 11:47 am

      I’m sorry to hear that, Esther! Good for you starting a blog! I hope the Lord uses it to bring about healing!

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