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Graduation Throwback

May 21, 2025 By D'Ann Mateer 8 Comments

This month marks 40 years since I graduated from high school. How is that even possible? So in honor of the occasion, I thought I’d show all the young ones out there what the mid-1980s were really like, at least in Texas! (Forgive the photo quality. It was a long time ago and they’ve been in photo albums for 40 years!) 

Big Hair

Yep. Big hair was even bigger in Texas! And when your hair is naturally wavy and there are not yet straightening irons, it’s even bigger on many days. Now my hair wasn’t long, mind you, becuase I’d done a crazy thing a couple of years earlier and cut it all off. But it was finally growing out some by graduation! 

Graduation Teas

Are these still a thing? Most of the girls I ran with had one or sometimes two! It was a dress up affair, only girls, sometimes at a restaurant, sometimes at a home. Usually hosted by aunts or grandmothers or even close friends of the girl’s mom. Two of my friends had an Aloha party just for the girls. 

But life in the 1980s wasn’t just different in clothing, hair, and traditions. It amazes me to think back on technology—or lack therof!

Phones in the house with cords

No cell phones. Not even cordless phones. And only in the house! (Except for my aunt, who did have a phone in her Cadillac! But even that was built in withe a cord!) We did, however, have an answering machine. (Like voicemail, but you could only get the message when you were at home and pushed the button to hear it, in case you don’t know.) This was becoming crucial in our lives—leaving a message if we called someone who wasn’t home, because, of course, there was no caller id, either. 

Yep, we had the one with a chalkboard for messages–and an extra long cord for privacy!
A vintage analogue answering machine from the 80’s made of wood and chrome on an isolated mustard yellow background – 3D render

Mapsco

I was a horror with directions in high school. (I’m not great with directions now, to be honest.) My only hope was someone in the passenger seat of my car with a Mapsco of our city. What was Mapsco? A grided map spiral bound. You could find the street number and name in the index.It would tell you what page and grid coordinates to go to. Of course, to find your current location, you might have to navigate several pages back or ahead. Needless to say, I’m so thankful for GPS on my phone! 

Pay phones

No cell phones meant you always needed to carry change in your purse or call in case you had trouble and needed to make a phone call. I remember the cost went up sometime between when I started driving and when I graduated from twenty cents to a quarter. 

Cash 

See above! I don’t ever remember carrying a credit card or debit card (was there even such a thing?). What I did have was an ATM card so I could get cash. We even paid cash (or check) for gas in those days. 

We carried ones and fives, maybe a ten or twenty. Not $100 bills!

Typewriters

No laptops. Few computers for home use. Although we did have one at our house for my dad’s business. (Texas Instruments brand, I believe.) So I was very lucky to receive from my parents a portable electric typewriter to take to college. That meant I could write my papers in my room instead of going to a typing lab. There was a computer labs on campus, but few people used them for word processing at that point.

Not the one I had. Mine was really sleek and easy to carry. I was just happy it was electric!

I can’t believe how much of life has changed in forty years. Of course, when I crossed the stage and accepted my high school diploma, I had no idea that the biggest change in my life would happen a couple weeks later when I went to Washgington D.C. to do a summer internship. There I met Jeff. Our summer romance is still going strong 40 years later. 

What has changed in the world since you graduated from high schoool? 

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Inspired by novelist Eugenia Price, D’Ann’s dream of writing historical fiction with an element of faith began in middle school, though her serious drive toward publication took a bit longer. D’Ann is the author of four historical novels and one novella, as well as a contemporary short stories in a compilation volume. D’Ann and her husband of 30 years can be found in Austin, TX when they aren’t touring historic sites or visiting their grown children.

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  1. Becky Wade says

    May 21, 2025 at 12:06 pm

    My daughter and I were just talking this morning about the differences between my high school experience and hers. I can relate to everything you mentioned (except the graduation teas–we didn’t have those out in California). I loved this post!Oh, how things have changed.

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    • D'Ann Mateer says

      May 21, 2025 at 12:49 pm

      Crazy how much change we’ve seen! So many things my kids don’t have any clue what I mean, let alone my grandkids!

      Reply
  2. Teresa Wells says

    May 21, 2025 at 12:15 pm

    I love this! Although I’m a’77 grad myself, I grew up just north of you so you’d think we’d have a few high school traditions in common, especially something as festive as an Aloha party. My mom hosted a graduation lunch for me and my close friends, but sadly, no leis were present.

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    • D'Ann Mateer says

      May 21, 2025 at 12:49 pm

      Yes, those were my “fun” friends. Mine was a more sedate “tea/luncheon.”

      Reply
  3. Elisa says

    May 21, 2025 at 3:11 pm

    I grew up in the ’80s and ’90s and remember some of those electronics in later versions/models! Electronic typewriters were on their way out in the 1990s as more desktop PCs came on the market. Answering machines got smaller and didn’t need cassettes then were gone by the 2000s.

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    • D'Ann Mateer says

      May 21, 2025 at 4:30 pm

      It’s crazy how quickly answering machines came, changed, and left!

      Reply
  4. Deborah Raney says

    May 21, 2025 at 4:17 pm

    Oh, my! You’re making me feel OLD, D’Ann! (And I’m 10 years older than you!) 🙂

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    • D'Ann Mateer says

      May 21, 2025 at 4:31 pm

      Sorry about that, Deb! 😂

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